Dearest JAIBIR Bhai you will always stay with us
I'm still not able to make myself believe that JAIBIR has said his LAST
GOODBYE to all of us.
We're still not able to come out of grief stricken hangover of losing JAIBIR YADAV the one of the most charming and handsome personality amongst us from the batch of 1991-94.
Nothing can be more painful for any friend to offer condolences for a friend
with whom you were looking forward to have cheers very soon.
I still can't believe that our very own most loved buddy JAIBIR left us in such
a hurry that he even didn't let any of us to know about the traumatic situation
from which he was going through.
My heart goes out for his wife and kids who have lost their entire world and
for any parents nothing can be a bigger nightmare than watching the funeral of
their kids in their lifetime. My deepest condolences for his family, specially
for his very unfortunate parents.
May no parents of the world be cursed with such a death like bad luck. It was further painful to know that he was the main bread earner for his family
and presently ongoing Lockdown also had hit his health and business very hard.
Jaibir was one of the smartest amongst us but unfortunately the smartest also became one
of earliest to leave us.
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| Jaibir, The Handshome Hunk |
The images of a charming and handsome JAIBIR with curly shining hair, bulging
chest clad in white T-shirt and maroon lower, often flanked by Doval, Parihar, Rajendra, and Prabhakar walking to and fro confidently through the footpath
between football ground and handball court will remain imprinted in my heart
forever. His looks and body language were so charming and similar to a
footballer that many of us used to call him Maradona. With his muscular built
and in his Subhash House's Yellow Tshirt and green shorts, he would look like a Maradona in Brazalian colours.
Watching him doing pace bowling in effortless smooth action was a treat. He was
loaded with true smartness of body mind and soul. Despite having a bullish personality he was always quiet humble and down to earth person.
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| smiling Jaibir with Satish Bhalotia |
While talking to him on topics which are usually discussed within the
teenagers' circle, some extra sparkling could be noticed in his eyes when we used to talk about some of our beautiful eye-catching group of girls but he never
crossed the limit beyond which things get Completely revealed but still for few
of us his point of charm and affection was not hidden.
His shyness always got better than his expressional ability. Those lovely
memories always be lingering in hearts and minds but sadly the central
character has taken a break which will never end.
In life we come across to meet countless people in countless ways. Some of them
just come and go like a flash but some come and stay deep in our hearts and
minds forever and become a visible or invisible part of our lives.
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| LNCPE Gwalior our Alma mater, and best station of journey called LIFE |
There is a famous quote, "No two people meet without a reason.”
It made me to think that if no two people meet without a reason then, "100
people would never come together without a mission."
So far RAJHANS, OM PRAKASH PANDEY aka OP and now JAIBIR have gone out of the bonds of our worldly companionship.
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| Big n Bold |
We often keep coming across to know about the inevitable unfortunate incidents
of loss of life of our near and dear ones. It often break us from within. But
the most affected are the immediate family of departed souls. Last year one of our another loved batchmate Anita Nair also suffered a
heartbreaking blow when she lost her husband. In any of the case we could only offer our tribute of words only.
For some privileged, Life is like Rose's Bed,
But for some not so privileged, Life is Dosage of Red
Latest loss of JAIBIR has made us to realise that how unpredictable and uncertain
the life can be and which is always beyond our control. When loss of life occurs in any family it get devastated with grief and
sometimes with possible financial crisis also. And many times many of us go through a health or financial crisis silently and
due to the self imposed dignity the sufferer also is not not able to reveal the
reality to anyone.
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| Last time when we were togather at Diamond Jubilee of LNCPE 17 Aug 2018 |
Most of us have entered into the age-group of 50. So soon life is going to be
filled with more responsibilities and health challenges simultaneously. Which
mean more pressure, which further mean we need more mental support and
sometimes financial support also.
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| in Lovely Days of 1991 |
Money is not the solution of all problems but sometimes a timely small monetary
support can prevent a small damage from becoming a big disaster. So we must come together to express our solidarity and be a ray of hope for
each other.
In the world where life is full of uncertainties let's have at least one place
where we can expect a guarantee of some support when misfortune strikes any of
our less fortunate friend.
Yesterday after the worst and most unfortunate news of JAIBIR's demise a
Nobel initiative, Conceptualized by Prema mobilised by Tamanjeet and actualised
by the support of all of us. We have come very close of making the foundation of
newly found rejuvenated solidarity and friendship.
We must not fail from
getting close together with motto of
"All For One and One For All."
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| Jiabir with his Crazy Boys |
May our soladarity stay blessed forever
It will be the best tribute we can offer to our beloved JAIBIR
Dearest JAIBIR Bhai you will always stay with us
Thanks for staying in my heart and mind,
You are one of my most precious find.
Unforgettably yours,
Friend of bit different kind
: Vijay Bisht
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| Live n Love, Luck is a Bonus |
Yes, it's painful to believe that our one of the most handsome, charming,shy jaibir left us forever...
ReplyDeleteI loved the your way u expressed ur emotions...worth reading!
so, Mr blogger long way to go...l
I can understand and feel the emotions and spirit in your kind words ��
ReplyDeleteIt was very painful to hear the sad news of Jaibeer.
ReplyDeleteMay God Almighty give strength to his family to bear the loss. Heartfelt condolences
We all know that death is inevitable yet it becomes more difficult to bear the pain of untimely death..
ReplyDeleteSo true 🌼🙏
DeleteSo sad to hear that Jaibir has left this world. I am not a regular on Facebook, so got a little shock when I read this ! The nice, charming, and always smiling guy that I knew is no more. It's just so hard to believe ! Heartfelt condolences to the family.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately and sadly I also wasn't aware about Rajhans and OP.
Thank you Bisht ! Will try to keep in touch more often.
Really it's still very hard to believe this.
DeleteI can feel the pain and concerns in your words
(Pls may I know about you as your name is not there, someone from our batch?)
So sad
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